Lolth’s Not Your Mom, But She’s Definitely Disappointed in You
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Show Notes
In this Spooktober installment, Tyler, Randall, and Ash descend into the Underdark to talk about everyone’s favorite spider-themed frenemies: the drow. But don’t expect a simple “they’re all evil” hot take—this conversation is about how to use drow effectively and responsibly at the table.
Highlights include:
History lesson (with bite): From Scottish folklore to Gygax’s caverns, the word “drow” has been through some things.
The big problem: Why “evil by biology” is lazy design and a headache for modern tables.
The fix: Treat drow as cultures, factions, and ideologies rather than one-note villains.
Tactics and terror: How to make them scary with ambushes, traps, lair design, and coordinated squads instead of tired stereotypes.
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Tyler Kamstra
Ash Ely
- Professional Game Master on StartPlaying.Games
- Join Ash’s West Marches-style PF2 Game
- Bluesky: GravenAshes
- YouTube: @ashravenmedia
Randall James
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- Bluesky: @JackAmateur
- Read Melancon: A Grimoire Tale
