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Beg, Borrow, and Steal - Party Relationships

A group of strangers have very little motivation to fight and die alongside each other. Every party needs something to tie it together. By establishing some basic relationships at the beginning of your campaign, you can give your party a decent reason why they should be working together.


Each player should pick one other party member with whom to have some sort of social tie. They could be family, they could be friends, or whatever else fits the characters. These relationships should be agreed upon by both players, and two players may not pick each other. The proposed tie should not require any active effort on the part of the recipient. This should leave each character with one or more ties: one that they proposed, and one or more that someone else proposed to them.

Multiple players may establish a tie to the same player. Maybe that character is the social focal point of the group, or maybe they are a leader or officer of some sort. In general, character with more ties are more popular. Characters with only one tie might be less well liked by the rest of the group, the might be particularly shy, or they might just not have gotten to know everyone yet.

Avoid creating "islands" within the group: groups of characters who lack ties to another group of characters. This should only be possible with groups of 6 or more, but should still be watched for.


Each player should pick one party member with whom to establish a point of contrast or conflict. The target character should not be the character's only tie, if the originating character has only one. Contrasts should be relatively minor compared to ties. If one character actively hates another, it can cause problems. If one character secretly hates another character's after-shave, it can be an amusing recurring conversation point.

Characters who are the recipient of multiple contrasts might be difficult to get along with, or are otherwise unpopular. Try to avoid having one character be the subject of all of the party's contrasts. This can make on character (and potentially the player) a pariah within the group. No one wants to play Eric Cartman for long.

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